SoMEtHIng....mEmORiES..: October 2011

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Its 6 ...

Alhamdulillah pejam celik pejam celik.....cepat btui masa berlalu selepas melalui kehilangan di bulan March aritu....Allah menghadiahkn kembali anugerah terindahnya buat diriku...
Kini usia kandungan dah mjangkau 6 bulan...Syukur ke hadrat Allah SWT...setakat ni baby sihat membesar...semoga baby akan terus sihat...tak sabar menunggu kehadirannya...

Bila dah masuk 6 bulan ni...mula la terfikir2 nk plan nk bersalin kt hospital mana....kalau ikut dari poliklinik yg selalu aku buat check up...hospital bsalin adalah kt serdang la...tapi en suami ada bad experience dgn doc kt situ.....sbb pernah msk sblm ni kt situ ms 1st baby tu...and sbb my past experience...so kalini punya pregnancy kena refer balik ke sana sbgai langkah bjaga2...tp ada sekali tu pergi checkup kt hospitl serdang ni...of cause sbb dah ada past experience...en suami mjadi sorang yg suka bertanya itu dan ini pada doc ...sbb kalau boleh nak elakkn benda berulang...tp doc tu mcm nak tak nak je jwb...lepas tu asyik bagi jwpn saya tak tahu.....so en suami pun mmg hangin gak le...dah le set appoinment pkl10...kitaorg smpi le awl igtkn trus pkl10 dpt le masuk jumpe doc....rupenya pkl1230 baru dia panggil....mana tak hangin...dh le ms tu plan amik halfday....trus kna amik 1 ari leave...

so utk this time...en suami cadangkn utk pergi private...dia kata biar berabis sikit tapi dia tak nak layanan macam tu lg...so tanya2 kwn hospital yg terdekat...so umh kami kt seri kembangan...so bila lihat yg terdekat private hospital ada kt bangi...antara az-zahrah or annur...
so ada kwn cdgkn annur...islamic sikit katanya...and doc dia pun perempuan yg akan sambut...so aku pun tertarik la...insyaAllah andai diizinkn Allah next week my 1st check up kt sana...sbb syarat utk bsalin kt sana at least kena ada 3 kali check up kt situ.....
harap2 semuanya berjalan lancar nnti....kekwn tolong doakan semuanya selamat utk sy ye....
Ya Allah kurniakan kekuatan utk diriku...dan permudahkan segala urusanku...amin ya rabbal alamin....

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Advise for husband.... to love and to be loved

EVERY HUSBAND SHOULD READ THIS:
"Love her …when she sips o...n your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).
Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own....Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you
Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.
Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.
Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.
Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change. Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay
Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)
Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass
Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway
Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both
Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised concerning the woman:
• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives."